Self-evaluations

So this blog is about some self realizations I have made (or been made aware of -LOL) in the last few weeks.


I have come to the conclusion that I may be a friend snob. What do I mean by “friend snob”? Lately I seem to have to inject my opinion into every conversation. I don’t mean to – it just happens. If my friend’s child did something awesome…Mine did something too…If their child did something horrible… mine did something worse….I have decided I need to think before I talk. Just nod and smile. :-)

It was also pointed out to me that, when I am blogging or posting stuff on facebook, it is more glum & doom than happy & glad. I complain more than I celebrate. I have been making a huge effort to correct this. I am trying to say/post 2 happy things for every 1 complaint. Does this always work? No! LOL But I am trying! :-)

My sisters both tell me that I tend to freak-out about some things- especially medical stuff. After I thought about it for a while I realized I do tend to do that. I don’t know why…I didn’t use to-I don’t think so anyways. I think it started after my 2nd son got a little older and we were in the ER/doctor’s office a lot. I don’t know when and I don’t know why! Either way I am trying not to share my every little worry (especially medical) with everyone. I will do my research, talk to my hubby, and then tell only my mother, unless asked.

This is the end of my self-evaluation. I hope it helps someone else.